你相信命運嗎？

都說性格決定一個人的成敗
都說命運掌握在自己的手中

那是真的嗎？

成敗我是相信的，但也不是全部。認真努力的人是應該有更高的機會能夠成功。但成功需要天時，地利，人和；很多時候機會和運氣才是關鍵。有九分的努力和准備，也需要那一分的運氣才能成功。
但是命運... 很多時候我都會覺的，一個人吃多少，用多少都是注定的。無論你多麼努力，多麼防預，要來的始終要來，躲不過也避不了。有太多的事物，是你的始終是你的，不是你的，再努力也得不到，生命也是。
也不是第一次要經曆生離死別了，人越大，越深刻，傷痛越多。曾想過，如果不付出，不放在心上，不投入，不留回憶，那分離的時候就不那麼痛了。曾告訴自己，要獨力堅強，即使只剩自己一個人，也要好好活下去。但在再有人會離去時才發覺，還是會痛，還是會傷心，還是覺得難受，還是不知所措。是我還是沒有成長，還是我太脆弱。

是，我很沒有志氣的承認
我相信有命運的存在，且沒有任何信心我能改變命運。
但我會盡力變堅強，哪怕再跌到多少次，花再多的時間，也要再站起來。
我不知道是否有另一個世界，但在這一個，我應該要活的好好的，那離去的人才會放心。

The Hurt Locker

I think this movie became all famous and well known now, since it just won a couple awards in the Oscar Academy. I didn't watch this movie because I am not really into war films. Yet, since it won some awards I feel I should watch it.

It took me a while to finish this movie.
I will be honest, I didn't really like the movie much. I think for the people who like war films, it might be better for them. I personally don't like wars scenes and those motions much. Actually I should judge since I am very biased.

I think Avatar is better. At least the story line is more vivid and the scenes are more appealing. Heh, is it true that Avatar didn't win because it is against the government?

nice weather out

It is March, should be spring time.
Yet, we all know that Canada (Ontario) doesn't really have spring or fall time. Mostly winter time then three months of summer time. Usually it still snows in March. It is pretty rare that we would have such nice weather out in March.
Ever since last week, it is nice weather outside. Not hot nor cold neither, nice and sunny outside. The star at night is very pretty. It might sound funny that I said -3 Celsius, but it feels pretty warm compare to those -20 Celsius times.

Nice weather make people happier. Seeing and feeling the warm sunshine make me  have a better mood in general. =)

it is been a year

yes.. it is been a year.
it is been a year since this blog first established.
i don't think there are many people read it. however, i still want to thank all the readers of this blog.
there is a lot of typos, or a lot of opinions that you may disagree with.
thanks for all the understanding and forgiveness.

i have learned a lot from blogging too.
b/c of writing blog, paid more attention to news.
b/c of writing blog, think more clearly
b/c of writing blog, expressed some thoughts that i may not tell people

夢想

最近發現，有很多日劇都是講夢想。
夢想，光是聽上去就覺的很遙遠。夢想和理想是不同的。
每天都在忙，每天都在努力。
還記得自己的夢想是什麼嗎？還在為自己的夢想努力嗎？

每個人都應該有一個屬於自己的夢想，都應該為自己的夢想努力。
但因為種種原因，受現實影響，可能連夢想是什麼都忘了。
等人生都過了，才發覺，因為太忙碌生活，把自己真正想要的都忘了。

we all deserve some quite time, some break time... to think about what we really want.
then we should do something about it. it is worth it to sacrifice some quality living style to get we really want.

暗瘡困擾 港大生吊頸亡 ?!?!?!

剛剛看到蘋果頭條 ﹣暗瘡困擾港大生吊頸亡

我不知道暗瘡是否惟一原因。
應該還有其他吧，如果真的只有暗瘡這個原因，真不知道說怎麼才好。
這麼辛苦考上大學，還差那一點點就畢業了。父母不知放了多少心血在他身上。
堂堂一個港大學生，會因為這麼小的事自殺？

儀容是重要，我是女生，我也很清楚這一點。但是這並不是什麼解決不了的事情。況且是男生，比起相貌，才華才更重要。 這也未必太大驚小怪了。
不是我不明白，我也曾受暗瘡困繞，我也會不開心，缺自信。沒有人會想自己不是漂漂亮亮的。那幾年，我也曾試過無數的藥和治療。我幸運，終有一支藥是可用的，加上很有耐性的養成好的生活習慣也慢慢好了。
暗瘡不是能快速治好的，很需要時間和耐性。

再說了，就算有暗瘡，也不是什麼大不了的。
我身邊很多親戚朋友都會有暗瘡問題，治不好也不是什麼大問體。
不漂亮就在其他地方做好些，從其他方面來發光發亮就好啦，又不是要去選美。
很難相信，一個大學生，讀了這麼多書，連這麼小事都承受不了。
比起其他挫折，這並不算是什麼。
看來讀書好，真不代表什麼。

其實無論什麼歲數，跌倒了就要爬起來，有問題就要去解決。
人生總是會受挫折的

Cop out

It is kind of late to post about this movie.
Cop out is a funny movie. I was craving movie so I went to theater to watch.
Honestly, I don't think this is a movie that would be worthy to watch in a theater.

It is relaxing with some funny scenes.
There is nothing special of the story line.
Tracy Morgan is well played.
The ending is reasonable.

Hehe, don't really have much to talk about this movie.
I picked it because I didn't want to watch horror movies. Maybe I should try Shutter Island. At least it got a better rating.