Happy Holidays!

I wish everyone of you have a merry Christmas and happy new year.
Surprisingly, even I am spending this holiday with books and MCQs, I still do not think this is the worst Christmas I ever had. However, I wish all the hard time is gone and 2011 would be a good year for me, for everyone of us.

Good luck and best wishes.

好的發展需要對的决定

前两天去了旧老板的聖誕Party。不怕说，他是我遇到過最好的老板。開通，帮忙，forgiving等等，很多好处。坦白说，跟他工作很開心。去年聖誕我在考试，所以没到，今年去了，真的很替他高興。他的firm有了很好的發展，他的客人也有很好的發展。
在他眼前曾有很多机會，他跟我说，幸好當初作了正确的决定才有今日的好發展。我衷心祝福。

last day of work in 2010

2010 is coming to the end. It is not going to be a fun christmas holiday for me. It is not even a holiday because it is full of stress and books. I hope this is worth it and I will pass. I finished my last day of work in 2010 on Wednesday. Once again, I want to thank my co-worker for staying back with me and finish that file. Hopefully it went ok. It feels pretty relieve on the last day of work, at least I can focus on study now. Honestly, work is more stressful than I thought.

I wish everything will be better in 2011.

You need to know what you want

知道今時今日，大學生早已不值钱了，通街都是。在大陆更是，從一流到九流的都有，到不同國家留學的也有。當年在大陆讀書不容易，现在有機會了，父母就不停的制造機會給子女去完成自己當年未完成的梦想。但很多人仅只到唯有讀書高，却忘记了為甚麽要讀書。讀書聪明是好的，继续讀上去拿個博士當然好。但有幾個人可以做到？原來有很多人連自己想要甚麽都不知道，甚至没有想過，那即使人家帮你铺好路又如何？你自己連终點在哪里都不知道。

有些事情是人家帮不了的。就像别人帮不了你了解你想做甚麽，要甚麽。就像遇到挫折，如果你不想，别人帮不了你重新出發。這些都要靠自己，别人可能帮你20%，但你自己要做多80%。即使你不要成功，最起码你要知道自己並不想要成功。

從诺贝尔和平奖

今年這個和平奖真是制造了很多新闻和话题。
坦白说，我對政治興趣不大。我家里人的政治立场更是大不同，講政治傷感情，所以干脆不講。我的看法是，在這件事上中國政府是做得太過了。最差劲的是還设立了個甚麽孔子和平奖。每個人都有说话的權力，你爱聼不爱聽也不應该不譲人表達自己的想法。监禁，禁足並不能停止人的思想，反得更多异见声音又是何必？我認同中國人多，需要管制。但不等於要强迫别人的想法和你相同。每個人错了就要認，政府做错了也應该認错。中國要日本為當年侵華的错误道歉的同時，也應该為自己在文革和六四所做的错误决定。如果連自己做不到的事情，又有甚麽资格要求别人做到？

First impression

I do not think I should doubt the importance of first impression. After you get the first impression of something/someone, it is difficult to change it your view to it. There are many people/things you may only meet or experience once and that impression is all you would remember. People tend to make judgments base on the first impression as well.

Every word you say, every action you do, represents what kind of person you are. You may relax at home or private place however you want it, but not in public. I do not feel comfortable with people talking to me sitting down while I am standing, when we first met and I don't see you are better than me in anyway. That is not a proper manner to me and I don't feel like I am getting any respect at all.

When I was younger, I didn't realize a lot of stupid stuff I did. However, as you grow older you should realize and be responsible for your own actions.

回來了

媽從港回來了，終於回來了。其實也不太久，一個多月，也不是第一次了，但這次算是比較擔心。怕她回去會病倒，就真是病了。香港和大陸的空氣都不太好，且食物安全質素還待商榷，人一累就病。終於回來了，也放心了。

明白到家人有多重要，越大越怕失去。

new haircut

I don't really cut my hair often. I like to keep my hair long because I didn't get a long hair when I was a kid. This is what happen when you don't get something during your childhood, you would try everything to get it when you grow up.

This is pretty much a whole new look for me. I don't think I ever try this hair style before. It is something new and I think it is worth a try.