life is like an hourglass

i believe life has ups and downs.
i don't think there will be a person would turn it around for me, but i wish i could turn it around for someone.

i was reading the blog "Lady's first" earlier today. the article 寧靚莫叻 gives me some thoughts. if the author is saying the truth, all i can say is that men are skin-deep. i think we all agree that fact that, pretty can only last couple years, everyone will get old and ugly at the end. if man picks beauty over wisdom, does it mean he needs to change his girl all along his life time? Also, it is about the personality, and if they match each other. so the smart girls do not deserve love then? if the man picks a pretty girl over smart one, he is the one does not deserve love.

i asked people for opinions today. they say, never go for the 10s girl. (10s = 10/10) i understand a perfect girl needs a perfect man to match. they also say if it is for relationship, matching personality is the most important. some man has the self pride, they do not want their girl smarter than them. they want to protect their girl.

maybe the matching one will come eventually. maybe it is all arranged. maybe the turn around one will appear ultimately. maybe the story is true... a couple was actually an individual. the god took away one of the bones, and it became another individual. we are born to find the missing bone, so we can be completed again.